Reflexology massage services now are like mushrooms in the rainy season. In Jakarta and surrounding areas, you can easily find places that offer this service Muscle relaxants. In fact, many of which opened this reflexology massage service business in shopping centers.
Mushrooming of reflexology massage place not separated from the needs of citizens. Understandably, living in big cities like Jakarta, which makes the body tired easily crowded. In addition to office work load, traffic jams can also make the nerves of the body becomes tense. Especially if you ate rarely exercised regularly. As a result, the stamina of the body becomes not easy sluggish fresh alias. If you already like this, go to places reflexology could be the perfect solution.
In addition to providing physical fitness, reflexology can also make the immune system remains vibrant. "So the body remains healthy and is not easy to get sick," said Bambang Wahyudi, an expert in reflexology and holistic therapies.
According to Bambang, reflexology can open the nervous knots of blood vessels. Ganglion opening will make blood flow more smoothly. Blood vessels include arteries and veins.
With reflection, the blood flow in the artery will run more smoothly. Blood flow is bringing clean blood from the heart to body tissues. Clean blood contains tissue needed food.
Meanwhile, the vessels will bring back the remains left in the metabolism of body tissues to the heart to be processed. "The balance of the body becomes more stable, levels of blood would be normal," said Tom Hardjatmo, nerve and acupuncture experts Sint Carolus Hospital, Jakarta.
That way, the various diseases caused by blood circulation is not smooth can be cured. For example, headaches, depression, asthma, pre-menstrual syndrome to. How, just by massaging the points that are certain nerves in the soles of the feet. "Patients who healed me a lot," said Bambang.
Preventing chronic disease
In addition, reflexology is also able to prevent the emergence of chronic diseases. Because, through reflexology massage, will be caught in the body organs that are problematic, such as liver, kidney, spleen, lungs, heart, and pancreas.
Organs associated with the nerves in the soles of the feet. The top of your foot, for example, associated with breast and lung cancer. If someone is feeling pain during the massage on the nerve, meaning there was something wrong with his lungs.
"Pijatnya only slowly, but excruciating. We would recommend that the relevant health checks immediately to the doctor," said Mohammad Zaenal Mahasin, owner of Reflections Omah.
Moreover, usually there are other special signs that can be known by the therapist or masseuse. At nerve dipi Jat, therapists will find some sort of wadding such as sand. "If normal, nerve point that will be felt fine, but when there is pain, it feels different," said Zaenal.
2010년 3월 12일 금요일
Getting rid of Red Ginger Asthma
Years with acute asthma Asmalia Sulastri torture (35). When a relapse, the mother of four children could be unconscious. Not surprisingly, the hospital so her customers. After he drank regular red ginger extract of steeping, the disorder is lost.
How tormented Lia, slender woman was so called, each at 13:00 to 14:00 and 21:00 to 22:00, asthma relapse. "It was like being strangled, huh ... hurt like hell," he describes the ordeal.
Nearly all day he could just stay in bed. The medicine is certainly to be her friend any shortness of breath comes. Be another story after she drinks red ginger extract of steeping, disturbances in breathing was no longer disturbing.
More Spicy
Antiasma potion that he got from his neighbors who have similar complaints. Lia daily drinking two large glasses of steeping the red ginger on morning and evening. Any way make it simple. Thumb-sized ginger rhizome dimemarkan hands and then boiled with 1.5 cups of water until the remaining 1 cup, then drink all at once. Thankfully, until now Lia is no longer susceptible to interference, shortness of breath.
Red Ginger is a lot of the herbalist prescribed as one of the asthma medication. According to DR Suwijiyo Pramono, Faculty of Pharmacy Gadjah Mada University, Yogyakarta, the possible effect of antihistamines on merahlah ginger relieve asthma.
Red Ginger is a herb plants pseudo trunked upright and unbranched.
Zingiberaceae berfamili this plant stems, small round green and somewhat hard. The leaves are arranged criss-regular intervals.
Plant height was no more than 60 cm. The size of the red ginger ginger smaller than other types. As the name implies, this ginger-colored orange-red to the young. This coarse fibrous plants. Texture coarse stems and small round reddish-green.
Latin name Zingiber officinale plant, said Bambang Sudewo, herbalist from PJ Kedhaton Sekar, Yogyakarta, is rich in benefits. As a traditional medicine, it is clear Dewo, so he addressed, ginger, red has been chosen. This is because the content of volatile oil, a substance gingeral and oleoresin substance which gives a bitter taste and higher than the spicy ginger and ginger CVD elephant.
According Dewo, red ginger efficacious as a laxative, anthelmintic, antirematik, and peluruh colds. Also efficacious to warm the body, appetite enhancer, peluruh sweat, as well as preventing and treating colds. In addition, it is also efficacious to overcome sore throat (bronchitis), arthritis, sore waist, stomach pain, increase stamina, treat headaches, muscle aches, premature ejaculation, breast milk facilitator, and relieve asthma.
Mbah Sarpinyem, peddlers of herbal medicine in Klithikan Pakuncen, Yogyakarta, also provides a mixing of red ginger to buyers who experience shortness of breath because of asthma.
The inhabitants of Paradise Beverages
Zingiber genus name meaning horn given to him, because rimpangnya like horns that grow in the rhino's head. Zingiber adopted from Arabic, zanjabil. Qur'an in Surat al-Insaan: 17, mentioned the ginger. Stated that in heaven they are given a drink mixed with ginger.
Red ginger, add Dewo, rimpangnya be small, but the problem is most pungent flavor of ginger. That's because most high content of volatile oils, namely 3.90 percent. Elephant Ginger contains only 1.6 percent essential oil, ginger CVD were 1.5 to 3.5 percent. Different levels of the chemical. That's why the use is not the same. For instance, ginger elephants, widely used as cooking ingredients, beverages, and candy.
Red ginger aroma is very sharp. The excess is what makes the other named plants sunti ginger is used as raw materials. Dewo said, red is the essential oil of ginger zingiberin, kamfena, lemonin, borneol, sineol, singeberol, linalool, geraniol, kavikol, zingiberen, zingiberal, gingeral, and shogool. These plants also contain oil resins, starch and organic acid, malic acid, aksolat and gingerin. Other literature mentions this plant also contains flavonoids and polyphenols.
In addition to overcoming asthma, Mbah Sarpiyem use ginger as a salve stomach. At home, he was dispensing 15 grams of fresh ginger, to burn for 15-20 minutes. Furthermore dimemarkan and brewed in a glass of water, then blended with a tablespoon of honey, then drink.
You people with dry cough, or Dewo Sarpiyem Mbah added, could also drink rhizome of this plant. Ginger products have been sold in the market in the form of dried sliced or bulbs, instant ginger, powdered ginger, ginger syrup and ginger candy. Want to try?
How tormented Lia, slender woman was so called, each at 13:00 to 14:00 and 21:00 to 22:00, asthma relapse. "It was like being strangled, huh ... hurt like hell," he describes the ordeal.
Nearly all day he could just stay in bed. The medicine is certainly to be her friend any shortness of breath comes. Be another story after she drinks red ginger extract of steeping, disturbances in breathing was no longer disturbing.
More Spicy
Antiasma potion that he got from his neighbors who have similar complaints. Lia daily drinking two large glasses of steeping the red ginger on morning and evening. Any way make it simple. Thumb-sized ginger rhizome dimemarkan hands and then boiled with 1.5 cups of water until the remaining 1 cup, then drink all at once. Thankfully, until now Lia is no longer susceptible to interference, shortness of breath.
Red Ginger is a lot of the herbalist prescribed as one of the asthma medication. According to DR Suwijiyo Pramono, Faculty of Pharmacy Gadjah Mada University, Yogyakarta, the possible effect of antihistamines on merahlah ginger relieve asthma.
Red Ginger is a herb plants pseudo trunked upright and unbranched.
Zingiberaceae berfamili this plant stems, small round green and somewhat hard. The leaves are arranged criss-regular intervals.
Plant height was no more than 60 cm. The size of the red ginger ginger smaller than other types. As the name implies, this ginger-colored orange-red to the young. This coarse fibrous plants. Texture coarse stems and small round reddish-green.
Latin name Zingiber officinale plant, said Bambang Sudewo, herbalist from PJ Kedhaton Sekar, Yogyakarta, is rich in benefits. As a traditional medicine, it is clear Dewo, so he addressed, ginger, red has been chosen. This is because the content of volatile oil, a substance gingeral and oleoresin substance which gives a bitter taste and higher than the spicy ginger and ginger CVD elephant.
According Dewo, red ginger efficacious as a laxative, anthelmintic, antirematik, and peluruh colds. Also efficacious to warm the body, appetite enhancer, peluruh sweat, as well as preventing and treating colds. In addition, it is also efficacious to overcome sore throat (bronchitis), arthritis, sore waist, stomach pain, increase stamina, treat headaches, muscle aches, premature ejaculation, breast milk facilitator, and relieve asthma.
Mbah Sarpinyem, peddlers of herbal medicine in Klithikan Pakuncen, Yogyakarta, also provides a mixing of red ginger to buyers who experience shortness of breath because of asthma.
The inhabitants of Paradise Beverages
Zingiber genus name meaning horn given to him, because rimpangnya like horns that grow in the rhino's head. Zingiber adopted from Arabic, zanjabil. Qur'an in Surat al-Insaan: 17, mentioned the ginger. Stated that in heaven they are given a drink mixed with ginger.
Red ginger, add Dewo, rimpangnya be small, but the problem is most pungent flavor of ginger. That's because most high content of volatile oils, namely 3.90 percent. Elephant Ginger contains only 1.6 percent essential oil, ginger CVD were 1.5 to 3.5 percent. Different levels of the chemical. That's why the use is not the same. For instance, ginger elephants, widely used as cooking ingredients, beverages, and candy.
Red ginger aroma is very sharp. The excess is what makes the other named plants sunti ginger is used as raw materials. Dewo said, red is the essential oil of ginger zingiberin, kamfena, lemonin, borneol, sineol, singeberol, linalool, geraniol, kavikol, zingiberen, zingiberal, gingeral, and shogool. These plants also contain oil resins, starch and organic acid, malic acid, aksolat and gingerin. Other literature mentions this plant also contains flavonoids and polyphenols.
In addition to overcoming asthma, Mbah Sarpiyem use ginger as a salve stomach. At home, he was dispensing 15 grams of fresh ginger, to burn for 15-20 minutes. Furthermore dimemarkan and brewed in a glass of water, then blended with a tablespoon of honey, then drink.
You people with dry cough, or Dewo Sarpiyem Mbah added, could also drink rhizome of this plant. Ginger products have been sold in the market in the form of dried sliced or bulbs, instant ginger, powdered ginger, ginger syrup and ginger candy. Want to try?
Gandarusa, Potential for KB Men
This kind of bushy plants have long been known as a mixture of foreign drug to overcome a variety of complaints. Later benefit more gandarusa increasingly exposed, especially as a natural contraceptive for males. Some research has been done to prove his usefulness.
Since the first people to know gandarusa as plants for the courtyard. With over one meter high, a plant which has a Latin name Genderusa vulgaris Nees was deservedly selected as cover crops.
Like Siti Hartini, gandarusa estate owners in the numbers Pancoran Mas, Depok. According to the woman who diligently studied this herb mix, other unsightly appearance when planted in the yard, gandarusa also has various benefits. Gandarusa concoction he used to advantage as the outside in order to overcome the interference or ankle sprain.
"Herb had been there since the days of my parents. Ways mixes it easy, like making param to bruise or sprain is not swollen and speedy recovery. Gandarusa 30 grams of leaf material was fresh and the white meet your taste. After being washed clean, both the material until finely ground. After that, add enough water so that the dough. The dough is then applied to the part of the bruise or sprain. Do twice a day, "explained the grandmother of two grandchildren this.
All this based on some empirical evidence, these herbs can reduce the risk of swelling and relieve pain due to sprains.
Blood facilitator
Gandarusa efficacy as a pain reliever has also been investigated by Elisa Hotma Siregar from the Department of Pharmacy, State University of North Sumatra, in 1984, in order to determine the effect analgetiknya. The result, the infusion of dry leaves per oral gandarusa in mice, with comparative material of paracetamol and morphine, indicating a positive result or the effect.
Frequently utilized plant part is the leaves. It was distinctive, slightly spicy, sour, and bitter. Based on experience, gandarusa believed to help blood circulation, as well as nausea and antirematik reliever.
Meanwhile, in the pharmaceutical industry, basic materials or extracts gandarusa is often used for herbal medicine or drug. Unfortunately, not much research is being done to strengthen it.
Plants in Sundanese known as handerasa or gonorusa known potential as a natural contraceptive for men. Since a few years ago until today a number of Indonesian scientists continue to investigate the use of plant extracts as ingredients gandarusa natural contraceptive for men.
According to the results of preclinical testing in experimental animals, the plants were effective in suppressing the growth of spermatozoa. This belief originated from the findings of Prof. Ir. Moeso S. and Drs. P., Agus, Papuans gandarusa used as a medicine man KB. However, further research conducted by Drs. Bambang Prayogo, Apt., From the Department Farmakognosi (a branch of science that studies plants as medicine) Faculty of Pharmacy, Airlangga University, Surabaya.
Similar KB Hormonal
Otherwise Dr. Bambang, the workings of compound gandarusa easier to implement and potentially successful. Condition fertile again after not wear too high.
The findings of both bids gandarusa as a natural contraceptive for men certainly interesting. The reason for this more male contraception are mechanical, which makes men unwilling to use it. As intercourse is interrupted, other than difficult to control, also reduces the pleasure. Meanwhile, about condom use, many of which are not naturally hedged, in addition there are some women who are allergic condom.
There are men who are considered efficacious family planning, ie vasectomy, but it should be through the road operation. Already had designed horror. It had been so, vasectomy recovery into doubt when ¬ fertility and prostate cancer is often suspected trigger at a later date.
So to be ogled, contraception for men should be able to maintain physiological (organ function), psychology, and Libido remained normal. Perhaps similar but not equal to hormonal contraception, either implant or injection. Preferably in the form of pills or tablets, so that it can be used orally.
If true this is realized and the pharmaceutical industry interested in sponsoring the research and developer ¬ her, sure to be a big hope.
Even so, several groups, including researchers, research still suggests the existence of a detailed and comprehensive so that definitive conclusions can be drawn about the efficacy KB gandarusa as an alternative solution for men.
Since the first people to know gandarusa as plants for the courtyard. With over one meter high, a plant which has a Latin name Genderusa vulgaris Nees was deservedly selected as cover crops.
Like Siti Hartini, gandarusa estate owners in the numbers Pancoran Mas, Depok. According to the woman who diligently studied this herb mix, other unsightly appearance when planted in the yard, gandarusa also has various benefits. Gandarusa concoction he used to advantage as the outside in order to overcome the interference or ankle sprain.
"Herb had been there since the days of my parents. Ways mixes it easy, like making param to bruise or sprain is not swollen and speedy recovery. Gandarusa 30 grams of leaf material was fresh and the white meet your taste. After being washed clean, both the material until finely ground. After that, add enough water so that the dough. The dough is then applied to the part of the bruise or sprain. Do twice a day, "explained the grandmother of two grandchildren this.
All this based on some empirical evidence, these herbs can reduce the risk of swelling and relieve pain due to sprains.
Blood facilitator
Gandarusa efficacy as a pain reliever has also been investigated by Elisa Hotma Siregar from the Department of Pharmacy, State University of North Sumatra, in 1984, in order to determine the effect analgetiknya. The result, the infusion of dry leaves per oral gandarusa in mice, with comparative material of paracetamol and morphine, indicating a positive result or the effect.
Frequently utilized plant part is the leaves. It was distinctive, slightly spicy, sour, and bitter. Based on experience, gandarusa believed to help blood circulation, as well as nausea and antirematik reliever.
Meanwhile, in the pharmaceutical industry, basic materials or extracts gandarusa is often used for herbal medicine or drug. Unfortunately, not much research is being done to strengthen it.
Plants in Sundanese known as handerasa or gonorusa known potential as a natural contraceptive for men. Since a few years ago until today a number of Indonesian scientists continue to investigate the use of plant extracts as ingredients gandarusa natural contraceptive for men.
According to the results of preclinical testing in experimental animals, the plants were effective in suppressing the growth of spermatozoa. This belief originated from the findings of Prof. Ir. Moeso S. and Drs. P., Agus, Papuans gandarusa used as a medicine man KB. However, further research conducted by Drs. Bambang Prayogo, Apt., From the Department Farmakognosi (a branch of science that studies plants as medicine) Faculty of Pharmacy, Airlangga University, Surabaya.
Similar KB Hormonal
Otherwise Dr. Bambang, the workings of compound gandarusa easier to implement and potentially successful. Condition fertile again after not wear too high.
The findings of both bids gandarusa as a natural contraceptive for men certainly interesting. The reason for this more male contraception are mechanical, which makes men unwilling to use it. As intercourse is interrupted, other than difficult to control, also reduces the pleasure. Meanwhile, about condom use, many of which are not naturally hedged, in addition there are some women who are allergic condom.
There are men who are considered efficacious family planning, ie vasectomy, but it should be through the road operation. Already had designed horror. It had been so, vasectomy recovery into doubt when ¬ fertility and prostate cancer is often suspected trigger at a later date.
So to be ogled, contraception for men should be able to maintain physiological (organ function), psychology, and Libido remained normal. Perhaps similar but not equal to hormonal contraception, either implant or injection. Preferably in the form of pills or tablets, so that it can be used orally.
If true this is realized and the pharmaceutical industry interested in sponsoring the research and developer ¬ her, sure to be a big hope.
Even so, several groups, including researchers, research still suggests the existence of a detailed and comprehensive so that definitive conclusions can be drawn about the efficacy KB gandarusa as an alternative solution for men.
Stem cell therapy to Restore Sight
Dozens of people suffering from blindness or suffering from vision damage due to exposure to chemicals, is now getting his eyesight back thanks to stem cell transplantation.
The success of cell therapy was reported by Italian scientists. In their study of 107 eyes of 82 damaged beyond recovery. In fact, a man whose eyes were almost blind during the last 60 years is now close to normal eyesight.
Stem cell transplant (stem cells) offer hope to the thousands of people around the world who suffered chemical burns on the cornea. However, this therapy can not be applied to the damages in the optic nerve or retina involving the macula decline.
In addition, this therapy also can not be given to someone who both eyes blind because doctors need at least the healthy tissue to be grafted.
In a study published in the New England Journal of Medicine, the scientists take a few examples of stem cells from patients with healthy eyes and then membiakannya in the laboratory before being transplanted to the burned part of the eye.
Transplanted cells are apparently able to grow in the corneal tissue and replacing damaged cells. Because stem cells taken from their own bodies, then the patient does not need to take anti-rejection drugs, such as organ transplant patients from organ donors.
Adult stem cells, which can be taken from all parts of the body, has long been used to treat blood cancers such as leukemia or anemia crescent. But the return is a new vision.
Currently, patients who experience burning eyes treated with artificial corneas. This often causes complications, such as infection and glaucoma. Patients also can get stem cell transplants from animals, but often get a rejection of the body.
In that research of this Italian scientist, the patients who have received transplants of stem cells continue to be followed during the three-year health development, and some even up to 10 years.
Almost a third of the 106 patients able to be restored vision. But about 13 percent of otherwise successful half because even though their vision improved, but they still experience a kind of haze in the cornea.
The success of cell therapy was reported by Italian scientists. In their study of 107 eyes of 82 damaged beyond recovery. In fact, a man whose eyes were almost blind during the last 60 years is now close to normal eyesight.
Stem cell transplant (stem cells) offer hope to the thousands of people around the world who suffered chemical burns on the cornea. However, this therapy can not be applied to the damages in the optic nerve or retina involving the macula decline.
In addition, this therapy also can not be given to someone who both eyes blind because doctors need at least the healthy tissue to be grafted.
In a study published in the New England Journal of Medicine, the scientists take a few examples of stem cells from patients with healthy eyes and then membiakannya in the laboratory before being transplanted to the burned part of the eye.
Transplanted cells are apparently able to grow in the corneal tissue and replacing damaged cells. Because stem cells taken from their own bodies, then the patient does not need to take anti-rejection drugs, such as organ transplant patients from organ donors.
Adult stem cells, which can be taken from all parts of the body, has long been used to treat blood cancers such as leukemia or anemia crescent. But the return is a new vision.
Currently, patients who experience burning eyes treated with artificial corneas. This often causes complications, such as infection and glaucoma. Patients also can get stem cell transplants from animals, but often get a rejection of the body.
In that research of this Italian scientist, the patients who have received transplants of stem cells continue to be followed during the three-year health development, and some even up to 10 years.
Almost a third of the 106 patients able to be restored vision. But about 13 percent of otherwise successful half because even though their vision improved, but they still experience a kind of haze in the cornea.
Magical Not Hypnosis
Many people think hypnosis or hypnosis laden with magical powers who could not be explained scientifically. In some areas the practice of hypnosis and even banned. However, practitioners argue that hypnosis Hypnosis Summit in Indonesia in 2010, Sunday (06/13/2010), at the Hotel Oasis, Jakarta.
"Hypnosis is the penetration factor of the crisis in the brain by adding a command or a specific suggestion at the condition of a person in a state of trance. There is no power that strange," said Ade Gunawan hypnotherapist.
He told me all this time people imagine someone with the ability of hypnosis to be able to do whatever the subject, including such as hypnosis which is on TV. "In fact, hypnotherapist only helps the subject to move the subconscious mind to solve the problem," said Ade to Kompas.com.
Ade explained though someone in a state of deep trance though, the person must be aware. "This is because there are four filters that are always unconscious inside each person," he said. The fourth filter is the safety of the subconscious life, religious morality, logic, and values.
He cited someone who is hypnotized and then ordered to undress, without any conscious person would reject it because it goes against the values in themselves. "But, if there are cases of robbery with a hypnotic mode, I guess it was not. Maybe he used the other forces that do not exist in our science," he said.
He explained that hypnosis can be useful for someone to help resolve mental health problems ranging from the lightest to heaviest are like phobias such as depression and multiple personality.
Meanwhile, in Indonesia, hypnosis has been around since our ancestors. However, the literature on hypnosis as one of the new branch of science began in the 1960s. At first, hypnosis therapy is better known through the planting techniques of positive suggestion. However, along with the development, the technique was developed. Start now known as Neuro Lingustic Programming that focuses on the use of language, intonation, and body language to influence the mind to Cognitive Behavior Therapy and therapy with full-blooded.
"Hypnosis is the penetration factor of the crisis in the brain by adding a command or a specific suggestion at the condition of a person in a state of trance. There is no power that strange," said Ade Gunawan hypnotherapist.
He told me all this time people imagine someone with the ability of hypnosis to be able to do whatever the subject, including such as hypnosis which is on TV. "In fact, hypnotherapist only helps the subject to move the subconscious mind to solve the problem," said Ade to Kompas.com.
Ade explained though someone in a state of deep trance though, the person must be aware. "This is because there are four filters that are always unconscious inside each person," he said. The fourth filter is the safety of the subconscious life, religious morality, logic, and values.
He cited someone who is hypnotized and then ordered to undress, without any conscious person would reject it because it goes against the values in themselves. "But, if there are cases of robbery with a hypnotic mode, I guess it was not. Maybe he used the other forces that do not exist in our science," he said.
He explained that hypnosis can be useful for someone to help resolve mental health problems ranging from the lightest to heaviest are like phobias such as depression and multiple personality.
Meanwhile, in Indonesia, hypnosis has been around since our ancestors. However, the literature on hypnosis as one of the new branch of science began in the 1960s. At first, hypnosis therapy is better known through the planting techniques of positive suggestion. However, along with the development, the technique was developed. Start now known as Neuro Lingustic Programming that focuses on the use of language, intonation, and body language to influence the mind to Cognitive Behavior Therapy and therapy with full-blooded.
Laughter Make Younger
Laugh out loud is one of the best and easiest way to drive daily stress that often interfere with our health. That is, the more we laugh, the healthier our bodies and minds.
Old thinking says we laugh only if there is something funny. Plus, not everyone is a born humorist. Humorous or not, is determined by genes. In fact, the facts are not. Recent studies show laughter could be trained and performed every day. This is the opinion of Lee Berk, Loma Linda University scientist.
Through his research, Berk concluded that laughter is not separated or who had previously anticipated still have healthy benefits, which reduce levels of bad cholesterol (LDL) by 26 percent.
In addition, laughter may also reduce levels of C-reactive protein. This is part of protein which is one measure of risk a person with diabetes and heart problems. The higher levels of C-reactive protein, the higher the risk of heart disease and diabetes.
Therefore, laugh though nothing is really funny that can cause us to burst out laughing. Laugh for the little things or to joke that we have ever heard before.
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Old thinking says we laugh only if there is something funny. Plus, not everyone is a born humorist. Humorous or not, is determined by genes. In fact, the facts are not. Recent studies show laughter could be trained and performed every day. This is the opinion of Lee Berk, Loma Linda University scientist.
Through his research, Berk concluded that laughter is not separated or who had previously anticipated still have healthy benefits, which reduce levels of bad cholesterol (LDL) by 26 percent.
In addition, laughter may also reduce levels of C-reactive protein. This is part of protein which is one measure of risk a person with diabetes and heart problems. The higher levels of C-reactive protein, the higher the risk of heart disease and diabetes.
Therefore, laugh though nothing is really funny that can cause us to burst out laughing. Laugh for the little things or to joke that we have ever heard before.
More Quiet For Massage
People who have a tendency to be easily agitated, it is advisable to perform massage therapy on a regular basis. The result of research published in the journal Depression And Anxiety states, these actions can reduce anxiety symptoms by half.
The study conducted by researchers from Group Health Research Institute. They studied 68 patients with general Anxiety Generelized Dissorder who underwent massage as much as 10 times, for three months.
by certified Each session lasts for one hour, the room comfortable and relaxing. The patients have a massagetherapist. According Because J. Sherman, PhD, is a senior researcher, massage therapy has indeed been long known as a complementary alternative healing method which is quite popular and effective.
The study conducted by researchers from Group Health Research Institute. They studied 68 patients with general Anxiety Generelized Dissorder who underwent massage as much as 10 times, for three months.
by certified Each session lasts for one hour, the room comfortable and relaxing. The patients have a massagetherapist. According Because J. Sherman, PhD, is a senior researcher, massage therapy has indeed been long known as a complementary alternative healing method which is quite popular and effective.
Dog Able to Detect Prostate Cancer
Usually done by prostate examination digital rectal examination. But there are now new alternatives, namely using the assistance of specially trained dogs.
Belgian Malinois sheepdog type which has a sharp smell trained for a year by doctors from Tenon Hospital, Paris, France to distinguish the urine of men with prostate cancer and healthy men.
Dogs are animals that have a sense of smell 100,000 times sharper than human and prostate cancer cells is believed to be issued a special smell. Jean-Nicolas Cutaneous, chief researcher, says that dogs are able to identify the odor molecules produced by cancer cells.
In the study the dogs are able to identify correctly 63 of 66 urine samples berkanker and healthy.
Nevertheless, the experts would not rush to conclude the ability of dogs to detect cancer, given the small scale study and further research is needed to prove it.
When later shown a dog can detect accurately, experts believe this method will be more effective and accurate than blood tests to determine the prostate-specific antigen (PSA) which has been the standard examination to screen for prostate cancer.
Own a dog known for its sharp smell. This capability has long been exploited by human being, among others, to detect specific molecules, such as bombs or reveal cases of theft.
Animals do have sharper senses than humans, such as a cat that can see in the dark, elephantiasis, which is sensitive and can detect other elephants footprints tens of kilometers away, and so forth.
Belgian Malinois sheepdog type which has a sharp smell trained for a year by doctors from Tenon Hospital, Paris, France to distinguish the urine of men with prostate cancer and healthy men.
Dogs are animals that have a sense of smell 100,000 times sharper than human and prostate cancer cells is believed to be issued a special smell. Jean-Nicolas Cutaneous, chief researcher, says that dogs are able to identify the odor molecules produced by cancer cells.
In the study the dogs are able to identify correctly 63 of 66 urine samples berkanker and healthy.
Nevertheless, the experts would not rush to conclude the ability of dogs to detect cancer, given the small scale study and further research is needed to prove it.
When later shown a dog can detect accurately, experts believe this method will be more effective and accurate than blood tests to determine the prostate-specific antigen (PSA) which has been the standard examination to screen for prostate cancer.
Own a dog known for its sharp smell. This capability has long been exploited by human being, among others, to detect specific molecules, such as bombs or reveal cases of theft.
Animals do have sharper senses than humans, such as a cat that can see in the dark, elephantiasis, which is sensitive and can detect other elephants footprints tens of kilometers away, and so forth.
2010년 3월 8일 월요일
Tips to overcome phobias in children
WASHINGTON - A recent study found the best way to eliminate the phobias in the children by introducing them to what is frightening them. Maybe just a ghost, devil and other scary things that solutions will be given a doctor to overcome phobias suffered by children.The researchers say, fear of spiders, anti-social and stay away from the parents is something normal in children and adolescents. But if fear into the normal life, that's the problem. One way is known as cognitive behavior therapy succeeded in introducing children to fear. By using relaxation techniques and tools that some devices will reduce excess anxiety. Like invite their friends to play to reduce fear or to stay home with their parents is the best way.
Research some time ago, showing the fear when Halloween celebration and this is a big health problem for some children.
"We have introduced the children with their fears, and we teach them techniques to overcome anxiety, but research is not strong enough to show how to introduce a part of the treatment or both is necessary for the advancement of research," says Mayo Clinic in Rochester researcher Stephen Whiteside .
The study will be presented at the Children Pskiatri Academy and adolescent America meeting in Chicago.
Whiteside and colleagues look back on medication and collected about 44 patients with age ranged from 4 to 18 years. A study comparing their practice clinical and protocols recommended manual treatment.
Some children feel scared about what will happen to them or their parents when separated, while others feel scared when playing or socializing with the surroundings. Phobias of children are known by the term phobia or feeling restless and always feel afraid.
The researchers found that manual therapy book that it should have 16 initial clues to introduce phobias in session 10. Tim Whiteside himself to find success at the ninth session by opening introduction evenly in three sessions.
Every child who already knows their phobias, they naturally have the ability to explore himself. Focus more children using the techniques for controlling anxiety, such as relaxation or doing something that can eliminate their anxiety.
"The child began to require therapy, if they have a phobias or anxiety that causes them to stop doing something they like," Whiteside to parental advice.
If they stop playing with their friends and stop doing something they normally did at school or if children or old people feel something watched children become delinquents and then worrying sign that they needed help.
Hopefully, tips to overcome phobias useful for us. If there is any questions about tips to overcome phobias in children or tips phobias for adult, please send via the comment form.
When Our Baby Not Perfect
Every parent would expect to have a baby "not perfect." However, reality does not always meet all expectations. When the child was diagnosed with deformity, like defects, Down syndrome or autism, certainly no feeling sad and upset.
Feelings of anger, could not accept, even shame to admit it happened in the family is the natural reaction. According to Gobin Vashdew, parenting motivator, these reactions arise because we are not prepared to accept the reality.
"The feeling down there because they were not ready. This could cause stress and these conditions are not easily escape from stress," says the author of Happiness Inside this.
Furthermore, parents often feel depressed, hopeless, and losing hope, especially when parents wonder about the future of the child. Sometimes, this stress can also lead to guilt, especially in the mother's side.
At this stage of depression, parents tend to be moody, withdrawn from the closest social environment, and loss of life. "Most people that have certain emotions will be leveled or buried themselves. In fact, the truth is released," said Gobin.
Process to escape from stress or stress relief is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand. "We can do this by trying to take lessons from each incident. Every person is born with their respective roles. Perhaps with this incident I was given a role as a nurse for my child," he said.
Every event in this world is neutral. Would you like to be negative or positive, depends on how we see and give meaning. "It would be nice if we always see from the other side," he said.
An event can be a door to an extraordinary thing. For example, Oprah Winfrey who can rise up from the trauma of sexual abuse they experienced. Another example is Gayatri Pamoedji, mother of a disabled teenager with autism who is known today as a family counselor and speaker at various seminars on children with autism.
The sooner we stop lamenting the fate and be able to find meaning, the sooner a child gets the attention and love needed to maximize the growth of.
"Sadness can not stay long. Remember, our children need immediate action. The more premature the child gets therapy and education, the better growth of the future will become independent so that no less like a normal child," said Gayatri in an opportunity.
Feelings of anger, could not accept, even shame to admit it happened in the family is the natural reaction. According to Gobin Vashdew, parenting motivator, these reactions arise because we are not prepared to accept the reality.
"The feeling down there because they were not ready. This could cause stress and these conditions are not easily escape from stress," says the author of Happiness Inside this.
Furthermore, parents often feel depressed, hopeless, and losing hope, especially when parents wonder about the future of the child. Sometimes, this stress can also lead to guilt, especially in the mother's side.
At this stage of depression, parents tend to be moody, withdrawn from the closest social environment, and loss of life. "Most people that have certain emotions will be leveled or buried themselves. In fact, the truth is released," said Gobin.
Process to escape from stress or stress relief is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand. "We can do this by trying to take lessons from each incident. Every person is born with their respective roles. Perhaps with this incident I was given a role as a nurse for my child," he said.
Every event in this world is neutral. Would you like to be negative or positive, depends on how we see and give meaning. "It would be nice if we always see from the other side," he said.
An event can be a door to an extraordinary thing. For example, Oprah Winfrey who can rise up from the trauma of sexual abuse they experienced. Another example is Gayatri Pamoedji, mother of a disabled teenager with autism who is known today as a family counselor and speaker at various seminars on children with autism.
The sooner we stop lamenting the fate and be able to find meaning, the sooner a child gets the attention and love needed to maximize the growth of.
"Sadness can not stay long. Remember, our children need immediate action. The more premature the child gets therapy and education, the better growth of the future will become independent so that no less like a normal child," said Gayatri in an opportunity.
The Hunted, Why Not Make Happy?
When our desires are fulfilled, we will be happy, and developing new and greater desire (elongation). Conversely, if the desire is not fulfilled, we become sad (hard), and we can shrink.
In this life may not desire a person continually met. Sometimes fulfilled, sometimes not. That's why there are no circumstances or conditions difficult happy lasting. Always happy and hard turns.
As one example is the Nova-life experience (not her real name). He is a single woman aged around 35 years. When other people are experiencing much difficulty to find a job in the early days, Nova actually been able to work at a company when it was still sitting on a bench in a city college student.
Armed with a degree in accounting economics from leading universities, as well as high skills in the field, after graduating he could easily get a new job in Jakarta.
During the nine years of Nova pursue a job with a company. However, in a nine-year working period that he was not happy with his work. First, he was not satisfied with the salary received. After difficult negotiations with the leaders, finally raised his salary anyway.
After that he still felt the dissatisfaction of others, that feeling can not be developed due to a work environment that is not challenging. It is difficult acceptance is a "social life" company leader who easily accept anyone who needs a job.
As a result, many employees are less skilled so that jobs can not run efficiently, while the leaders are not doing employee assistance programs.
In such circumstances Nova finally chose to move to another company. However, the situation turned out this new company is also less in accordance with the wishes of the Nova, then again, he moved to another company. Over a year he worked at this company, the company was eventually shuttered. As a result, this has been three months unemployed Nova.
Can imagine what it feels like a long time unemployed. Desire to return get a job is very strong. This makes the Nova experience feelings of panic, especially in the moments following the selection of incoming jobs. Increasingly strong desire to get a job, he became frantic, the more afraid of not being accepted.
This situation is finally making Nova yearn to return to work at a company that had been disliked and abandoned. Social nature of leadership (easy to accept people who need a job) who used to not like, now it coveted.
Well, look at all how happy (bungah) and sad (hard) is the fruit of "game" the desire (karep) exist within oneself. Happiness in early youth as having a job has been growing rapidly (stretchy) into the desire for a more ideal job.
Once the desire is not fulfilled, the desire is then shrunk (mungkret): Nova back long wanted the job. It appears that Nova actually become unhappy because he thinks more work to pursue an ideal. In the end, anyway he wants his job back that had previously been rejected.
Important: Finding For
Suryomentaram, a leading Java Psychology, found that happiness is really just due to sheer, as well as sorrow. It's more important is finding difficult because of taste and sense of happiness.
People need to find that selfishness is the cause of feeling wretched (unhappy), and only by discovering the inner instincts that way we can grow the reasons for the birth of a sense of happiness. For that teaches about Pengawikan Suryomentaram Personals, namely knowledge and taste aversion pleasure themselves.
In terms of physical exercises to find these personal pengawikan Ki Ageng Suryomentaram disclose:
"Above the earth and under heaven there is no inappropriate items sought, avoided, or rejected by death. Nevertheless, man is of course trying desperately to look for, avoid or reject something, although it should not be sought, rejected, or avoided. Is not what you are looking for or rejection of it does not cause people to be happy and happy forever, or woe and hard forever. "
When people understand that all events that no one worried and some are not very interesting, his view of light, and he Be free of attachment to the goods.
Things on earth and under the sky that does not cause people happy or wretched. Nor does it cause people happy or difficult. Because in essence, that cause is pleased that his desire is achieved, and that causes difficulty is the desire that is not achieved. So, not the goods he wanted.
What was experienced by Nova on top is a fairly clear example, that in fact the work itself (worldly goods) is not something that brings pleasure. The more he pursues his desire to work that thought bring pleasure, it turns out he's getting susahlah.
Please note that the human desire in general to move in search of degrees, hook, and Kramat. Finding peg means seeking wealth, comfort, and pleasure. Finding drajat means finding grandeur, glory, pride, superiority. Finding Kramat means finding the power, confidence, so revered and praised.
Desire is something that the man, who always existed throughout human life. Man desires. Man is eternal (everlasting), while happy, while hard.
When eternity is understood, we will be free from the pains of hell regrets and fears, the pains of hell out of envy and pride and a sense of woe. Emerged which is called the "man tatag", the man who dared to (not worry) to face any circumstances. Get him in heaven serene and steadfast that causes people glad and happy dreams.
Another thing that is also associated with pengawikan taught personally, so can be expected tatag people act in accordance with the principle of "six-sa": sabutuhe (as needed), saperlune (as necessary), sacukupe (to taste), sakepenake (live comfortably), samestine (as appropriate), sabenere (correctly).
Supervise Desire
After glad-ideals and happy, it can be when people realize his own desire whatever arise. Every desire must contain a sense of fear that is not achieved.
To that must be believed that "The desire that if achieved not cause happiness, but happy for a moment, then hard again. If not achieved does not cause any harm, just a difficult moment, which will be happy again. "
If we have declared so, then we can challenge, "Please wish desperately looking for eternal pleasure, and desperately hard to deny the eternal, must not succeed. You (will) do not worry about it anymore.
If we can believe in myself a desire like that, gone are feeling concerned. Coincided with the disappearance of a sense of concern, the watchdog grows keinginanya himself who understands his own will. @ (To be continued)
In this life may not desire a person continually met. Sometimes fulfilled, sometimes not. That's why there are no circumstances or conditions difficult happy lasting. Always happy and hard turns.
As one example is the Nova-life experience (not her real name). He is a single woman aged around 35 years. When other people are experiencing much difficulty to find a job in the early days, Nova actually been able to work at a company when it was still sitting on a bench in a city college student.
Armed with a degree in accounting economics from leading universities, as well as high skills in the field, after graduating he could easily get a new job in Jakarta.
During the nine years of Nova pursue a job with a company. However, in a nine-year working period that he was not happy with his work. First, he was not satisfied with the salary received. After difficult negotiations with the leaders, finally raised his salary anyway.
After that he still felt the dissatisfaction of others, that feeling can not be developed due to a work environment that is not challenging. It is difficult acceptance is a "social life" company leader who easily accept anyone who needs a job.
As a result, many employees are less skilled so that jobs can not run efficiently, while the leaders are not doing employee assistance programs.
In such circumstances Nova finally chose to move to another company. However, the situation turned out this new company is also less in accordance with the wishes of the Nova, then again, he moved to another company. Over a year he worked at this company, the company was eventually shuttered. As a result, this has been three months unemployed Nova.
Can imagine what it feels like a long time unemployed. Desire to return get a job is very strong. This makes the Nova experience feelings of panic, especially in the moments following the selection of incoming jobs. Increasingly strong desire to get a job, he became frantic, the more afraid of not being accepted.
This situation is finally making Nova yearn to return to work at a company that had been disliked and abandoned. Social nature of leadership (easy to accept people who need a job) who used to not like, now it coveted.
Well, look at all how happy (bungah) and sad (hard) is the fruit of "game" the desire (karep) exist within oneself. Happiness in early youth as having a job has been growing rapidly (stretchy) into the desire for a more ideal job.
Once the desire is not fulfilled, the desire is then shrunk (mungkret): Nova back long wanted the job. It appears that Nova actually become unhappy because he thinks more work to pursue an ideal. In the end, anyway he wants his job back that had previously been rejected.
Important: Finding For
Suryomentaram, a leading Java Psychology, found that happiness is really just due to sheer, as well as sorrow. It's more important is finding difficult because of taste and sense of happiness.
People need to find that selfishness is the cause of feeling wretched (unhappy), and only by discovering the inner instincts that way we can grow the reasons for the birth of a sense of happiness. For that teaches about Pengawikan Suryomentaram Personals, namely knowledge and taste aversion pleasure themselves.
In terms of physical exercises to find these personal pengawikan Ki Ageng Suryomentaram disclose:
"Above the earth and under heaven there is no inappropriate items sought, avoided, or rejected by death. Nevertheless, man is of course trying desperately to look for, avoid or reject something, although it should not be sought, rejected, or avoided. Is not what you are looking for or rejection of it does not cause people to be happy and happy forever, or woe and hard forever. "
When people understand that all events that no one worried and some are not very interesting, his view of light, and he Be free of attachment to the goods.
Things on earth and under the sky that does not cause people happy or wretched. Nor does it cause people happy or difficult. Because in essence, that cause is pleased that his desire is achieved, and that causes difficulty is the desire that is not achieved. So, not the goods he wanted.
What was experienced by Nova on top is a fairly clear example, that in fact the work itself (worldly goods) is not something that brings pleasure. The more he pursues his desire to work that thought bring pleasure, it turns out he's getting susahlah.
Please note that the human desire in general to move in search of degrees, hook, and Kramat. Finding peg means seeking wealth, comfort, and pleasure. Finding drajat means finding grandeur, glory, pride, superiority. Finding Kramat means finding the power, confidence, so revered and praised.
Desire is something that the man, who always existed throughout human life. Man desires. Man is eternal (everlasting), while happy, while hard.
When eternity is understood, we will be free from the pains of hell regrets and fears, the pains of hell out of envy and pride and a sense of woe. Emerged which is called the "man tatag", the man who dared to (not worry) to face any circumstances. Get him in heaven serene and steadfast that causes people glad and happy dreams.
Another thing that is also associated with pengawikan taught personally, so can be expected tatag people act in accordance with the principle of "six-sa": sabutuhe (as needed), saperlune (as necessary), sacukupe (to taste), sakepenake (live comfortably), samestine (as appropriate), sabenere (correctly).
Supervise Desire
After glad-ideals and happy, it can be when people realize his own desire whatever arise. Every desire must contain a sense of fear that is not achieved.
To that must be believed that "The desire that if achieved not cause happiness, but happy for a moment, then hard again. If not achieved does not cause any harm, just a difficult moment, which will be happy again. "
If we have declared so, then we can challenge, "Please wish desperately looking for eternal pleasure, and desperately hard to deny the eternal, must not succeed. You (will) do not worry about it anymore.
If we can believe in myself a desire like that, gone are feeling concerned. Coincided with the disappearance of a sense of concern, the watchdog grows keinginanya himself who understands his own will. @ (To be continued)
Fostering Moral Parenting Through Parents
In an informal meeting, several parents expressed concern about the collapse of moral values of our nation. Among them is the unfolding of many cases of corruption, abuse of marriage partner, or behavior of "bullying" among school children. They asked what was wrong with parenting as a source of moral formation of man?
To respond to this, I want to discuss about what is meant by moral values and moral development at someone, then how parents can improve the moral values within the family. The discussion will be for me in writing twice, given the limited space for this column.
Moral Values
From Big Indonesian Dictionary (1991), the term moral meaning of certain teachings, good or bad actions, attitudes, morals, manners, decency accepted by the people in general. According to Linda and Richard Eyre (1993), moral values are standard actions and attitudes that determine who we are, how we live and treat others.
Good grades can make people better, live better, and treat others better. As for the meaning of morality is the behavior that is believed by many as true and have proven to be a nuisance to others, even contrary will please others.
12 kinds of couples Eyre importance of moral values that need to be inculcated in children, namely honesty, courage, ability to find a peaceful, confident, self-discipline and attitude to know the limits, purity, loyalty / trustworthy, respect / reverence, love / affection, not concerned self / sensitivity, kindness and justice / compassion (further discussion about the moral value of these 12 will be given in subsequent papers).
Moral development in terms of psychological
The development of the moral aspects in a person occurs gradually and is long and slow process. The developmental psychologists agree that a baby is classified as a nonmoral, in the sense that his behavior is not guided by moral norms. Recently gradually he will learn the moral code of the parents / caregivers and teachers and his playmate.
Moral development in early childhood (2-5 years) still at modest levels. Children are not able to understand abstract principles of right and wrong. In this stage, the child automatically follow the rules without thinking or judging. He considered all the action as right or wrong based on consequences, rather than on their underlying motivation. They think that the act is wrong is the resulting penalty.
In the initial stage, the child-oriented and punishment-compliant in the sense that he considered the true physical harm caused by actions based on the act. The next phase of new children adjust to social expectations in order to get credit. In this period the child had not developed a conscience so that he does not feel guilty or ashamed when doing something that is known as something wrong. Instead he fears punishment or trying to justify his actions to avoid punishment.
At the age of 10-12 years, children increasingly expanding their social concept that deeds include any situation, is more than just a special situation. Rigid notion of right and wrong, learned from parents, to be changed and the child begins to take into account the special circumstances surrounding violations of the moral.
Moral relativism replaces the rigid moral. For example, for children 5 years old, lying is always bad, but for older children to realize that in some situations, lying is justified and therefore not always a bad lie.
Adolescence
Entering adolescence, he is expected to change the moral concepts that are specific in childhood with the generally accepted moral principles and formulate it into a moral code that would serve as guidelines for behavior. Now, he must control his own behavior, which was previously the responsibility of parents and teachers.
He is expected to consider all possibilities to solve a problem and accountable. So he can look at the problem from several points of view and solve them by taking as a basis for consideration of many factors.
Teenagers are no longer blindly accept the moral code of parents, teachers and peers. Currently, he wanted to form his own moral code based on the concept of right and wrong that has been modified and repaired to suit a more mature level of development and which have been equipped with the laws and rules that have been obtained previously.
Some teenagers have even completed their moral code with the knowledge gained from religious instruction. Formation of a moral code was difficult for adolescents because there are inconsistencies in the concept of right and wrong is found in everyday life.
Slow or fast, teens will understand, for example, that friends from different socioeconomic background, religion or race, has a different code on the wrong-right, that the moral code that parents and teachers are often more stringent than the code peers.
By understanding the development of moral values in a person, it is expected the parent can adjust the ways / methods of parenting in accordance with the age of the child.
To respond to this, I want to discuss about what is meant by moral values and moral development at someone, then how parents can improve the moral values within the family. The discussion will be for me in writing twice, given the limited space for this column.
Moral Values
From Big Indonesian Dictionary (1991), the term moral meaning of certain teachings, good or bad actions, attitudes, morals, manners, decency accepted by the people in general. According to Linda and Richard Eyre (1993), moral values are standard actions and attitudes that determine who we are, how we live and treat others.
Good grades can make people better, live better, and treat others better. As for the meaning of morality is the behavior that is believed by many as true and have proven to be a nuisance to others, even contrary will please others.
12 kinds of couples Eyre importance of moral values that need to be inculcated in children, namely honesty, courage, ability to find a peaceful, confident, self-discipline and attitude to know the limits, purity, loyalty / trustworthy, respect / reverence, love / affection, not concerned self / sensitivity, kindness and justice / compassion (further discussion about the moral value of these 12 will be given in subsequent papers).
Moral development in terms of psychological
The development of the moral aspects in a person occurs gradually and is long and slow process. The developmental psychologists agree that a baby is classified as a nonmoral, in the sense that his behavior is not guided by moral norms. Recently gradually he will learn the moral code of the parents / caregivers and teachers and his playmate.
Moral development in early childhood (2-5 years) still at modest levels. Children are not able to understand abstract principles of right and wrong. In this stage, the child automatically follow the rules without thinking or judging. He considered all the action as right or wrong based on consequences, rather than on their underlying motivation. They think that the act is wrong is the resulting penalty.
In the initial stage, the child-oriented and punishment-compliant in the sense that he considered the true physical harm caused by actions based on the act. The next phase of new children adjust to social expectations in order to get credit. In this period the child had not developed a conscience so that he does not feel guilty or ashamed when doing something that is known as something wrong. Instead he fears punishment or trying to justify his actions to avoid punishment.
At the age of 10-12 years, children increasingly expanding their social concept that deeds include any situation, is more than just a special situation. Rigid notion of right and wrong, learned from parents, to be changed and the child begins to take into account the special circumstances surrounding violations of the moral.
Moral relativism replaces the rigid moral. For example, for children 5 years old, lying is always bad, but for older children to realize that in some situations, lying is justified and therefore not always a bad lie.
Adolescence
Entering adolescence, he is expected to change the moral concepts that are specific in childhood with the generally accepted moral principles and formulate it into a moral code that would serve as guidelines for behavior. Now, he must control his own behavior, which was previously the responsibility of parents and teachers.
He is expected to consider all possibilities to solve a problem and accountable. So he can look at the problem from several points of view and solve them by taking as a basis for consideration of many factors.
Teenagers are no longer blindly accept the moral code of parents, teachers and peers. Currently, he wanted to form his own moral code based on the concept of right and wrong that has been modified and repaired to suit a more mature level of development and which have been equipped with the laws and rules that have been obtained previously.
Some teenagers have even completed their moral code with the knowledge gained from religious instruction. Formation of a moral code was difficult for adolescents because there are inconsistencies in the concept of right and wrong is found in everyday life.
Slow or fast, teens will understand, for example, that friends from different socioeconomic background, religion or race, has a different code on the wrong-right, that the moral code that parents and teachers are often more stringent than the code peers.
By understanding the development of moral values in a person, it is expected the parent can adjust the ways / methods of parenting in accordance with the age of the child.
Drop Again, Drop Again
That's three times I relate to the opposite sex in order to settle down because I've aged 31 years, but fail again, fail again. Indeed, I knew I was a little temperamental, and I often do not willingly if the prospective wife and I share their concerns with the opposite sex although they are by reason of her friends are old friends since I was in high school about 10 years ago.
Events that happened weeks ago, I was so angry with my boyfriend because I know that my boyfriend had to go watch a movie, midnight show, with some comrades office, but his male friends are accompanying the watch as well. Of course I was furious so uncontrollably I threw the car keys into a frame glass wall hangings, glass shattered, while I shouted loud, angry with my boyfriend.
At that time my girlfriend was in the living room of my home. What happens then? I was shocked because once he asked to end the relationship because she could not bear with my temperamental attitude. Mother, I am sorry, because in between my last three girlfriends, which is what I think most "fit" and my parents also have to agree. Moreover, a few weeks ago, my parents were acquainted with her parents and has started to mention about our wedding plans.
Honest Mom, I'm sad, upset, guilty, and sorry with what happened that night. I should not have such a temperamentalnya, should I hold back emotions and willing to listen to his explanation. In fact, I know he's a hard worker and just got home from work around seven o'clock tonight. So, did occasionally, he needed a refreshing, go with friends to watch a movie theater office since midnight show Saturday and Sunday is the time we were dating.
He also explained to me that why did his male friends are accompanying her friend to watch due to chance was in her house (her male friend is already so familiar with my girlfriend's family, while his office friends gathered at his house before going to the movies). Mother, I've apologized, but he's not willing to forgive and still not going out with me again, Mother, help me so that I was not such a temperamental back.
Similarly T with teary eyes.
Psychodynamics
From the results of psychological examination, it seems true that his emotional control was weak, even T is dominated by impulsive tendencies. That is, what appears momentarily in the minds and emotions will be disclosed without control. Besides, T is a closed private, less flexible in the association, and are more likely to be asocial (loner, less outgoing, and can be friends only with people with personality type is also relatively solitary).
Aggressive emotional appreciation often dominates his public and in our daily interactions with peers at school and work today tend to hold with all his strength, but the real aggressive expression in the form of throwing objects, hitting walls, and slamming things around it will be done at home. In this situation, both parents and the servants are not able to control it so impressed the home environment to tolerate such aggressive behavior significantly.
There are various hypotheses why T developed with these characteristics.
1. General mental characteristics within T is relatively weak, so vulnerable to emotional stress from the environment in which T is located.
2. Incidentally T is the only child of extremely expected presence in this world by her parents with the socio-economic background which is very excessive, so after a variety of medical and nonmedical efforts by both parents, the Lord entrusted his mother's womb at T fetus. Can imagine, how happy the couple, extra protection against small T can be understood and indulgence in the parenting process, both material and nonmaterial can not be ignored.
3. In the context of emotional indulgence, not a possibility, the social challenges faced at various stages of T mental development later (because the current 31-year-old T) are less successful develop an attitude of blaming the environment more than to find fault / open yourself to the feedback from the environment. Consequently, T does not learn from previous failures that made the T is always repeating the same mistakes, in this case, the reaction temper without control of the three ex-girlfriend.
Solutions
Cognitive behavioral therapy, accompanied by an emotional approach based on Rogerian technique (client's centered therapy) with a note:
T * Willingness to work together during the process of good therapy because cognitive behavioral therapy is only effective if the client shows the optimal working alliance and the therapist can create a psychological climate that supports the alliance relationship mentioned above.
* Alliance are marked by a commitment to attend each session the client agreed therapy, therapists perform a given task during the delay time session therapy.
* Willingness to client monitor and record changes in their own behavior and appreciate the success of the self in self changes in emotional control behavior even though they are in even minimal levels that occurred in the lag time antarsesi therapy.
Events that happened weeks ago, I was so angry with my boyfriend because I know that my boyfriend had to go watch a movie, midnight show, with some comrades office, but his male friends are accompanying the watch as well. Of course I was furious so uncontrollably I threw the car keys into a frame glass wall hangings, glass shattered, while I shouted loud, angry with my boyfriend.
At that time my girlfriend was in the living room of my home. What happens then? I was shocked because once he asked to end the relationship because she could not bear with my temperamental attitude. Mother, I am sorry, because in between my last three girlfriends, which is what I think most "fit" and my parents also have to agree. Moreover, a few weeks ago, my parents were acquainted with her parents and has started to mention about our wedding plans.
Honest Mom, I'm sad, upset, guilty, and sorry with what happened that night. I should not have such a temperamentalnya, should I hold back emotions and willing to listen to his explanation. In fact, I know he's a hard worker and just got home from work around seven o'clock tonight. So, did occasionally, he needed a refreshing, go with friends to watch a movie theater office since midnight show Saturday and Sunday is the time we were dating.
He also explained to me that why did his male friends are accompanying her friend to watch due to chance was in her house (her male friend is already so familiar with my girlfriend's family, while his office friends gathered at his house before going to the movies). Mother, I've apologized, but he's not willing to forgive and still not going out with me again, Mother, help me so that I was not such a temperamental back.
Similarly T with teary eyes.
Psychodynamics
From the results of psychological examination, it seems true that his emotional control was weak, even T is dominated by impulsive tendencies. That is, what appears momentarily in the minds and emotions will be disclosed without control. Besides, T is a closed private, less flexible in the association, and are more likely to be asocial (loner, less outgoing, and can be friends only with people with personality type is also relatively solitary).
Aggressive emotional appreciation often dominates his public and in our daily interactions with peers at school and work today tend to hold with all his strength, but the real aggressive expression in the form of throwing objects, hitting walls, and slamming things around it will be done at home. In this situation, both parents and the servants are not able to control it so impressed the home environment to tolerate such aggressive behavior significantly.
There are various hypotheses why T developed with these characteristics.
1. General mental characteristics within T is relatively weak, so vulnerable to emotional stress from the environment in which T is located.
2. Incidentally T is the only child of extremely expected presence in this world by her parents with the socio-economic background which is very excessive, so after a variety of medical and nonmedical efforts by both parents, the Lord entrusted his mother's womb at T fetus. Can imagine, how happy the couple, extra protection against small T can be understood and indulgence in the parenting process, both material and nonmaterial can not be ignored.
3. In the context of emotional indulgence, not a possibility, the social challenges faced at various stages of T mental development later (because the current 31-year-old T) are less successful develop an attitude of blaming the environment more than to find fault / open yourself to the feedback from the environment. Consequently, T does not learn from previous failures that made the T is always repeating the same mistakes, in this case, the reaction temper without control of the three ex-girlfriend.
Solutions
Cognitive behavioral therapy, accompanied by an emotional approach based on Rogerian technique (client's centered therapy) with a note:
T * Willingness to work together during the process of good therapy because cognitive behavioral therapy is only effective if the client shows the optimal working alliance and the therapist can create a psychological climate that supports the alliance relationship mentioned above.
* Alliance are marked by a commitment to attend each session the client agreed therapy, therapists perform a given task during the delay time session therapy.
* Willingness to client monitor and record changes in their own behavior and appreciate the success of the self in self changes in emotional control behavior even though they are in even minimal levels that occurred in the lag time antarsesi therapy.
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